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  • You only want to date attractive women. You aren’t attracted to many women. Those ones don’t seem attracted to you.

    Does that sound right?

    That’s a nonstandard combination, and that’s ok. You might be Ace, but not Aro. An Ace person (or someone elsewhere on the sexuality spectrum) could hold women to a high beauty standard for aesthetic reasons. While still having low requirements for the romantic side (i.e. be willing to compromise to get romance)

    Figuring out yourself will then dictate your dating approach. If you are Ace, then finding a beautiful Ace girlfriend is not the same approach as finding a straight one.

    All I know is, my desire for sex would (did) easily override some arbitrary beauty requirement. I think most generic straight guys would agree. So if this isn’t happening, it’s worth your time to ask why.












  • surewhynotlem@lemmy.worldtoxkcd@lemmy.worldxkcd #2948: Electric vs Gas
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    3 months ago

    It’s exactly this. Convenience. We’ve become accustomed to how convenient it is and don’t want to be put out.

    On the other hand, it’s super convenient to never go to a gas station again, and to wake up to a full tank. So if you drive less than 60 miles a day, and have acess to another car for long trips, an electric is even more convenient.